Thursday, January 30, 2014

The Color Gold

This is a post I read today from a beautiful friend of Bryce's.  I just love her.


You see this nerd with the big glasses probably spitting all over his cake.
That's Bryce.
We met in 6th grade homeroom.
It was an art class.
We ended senior year 
in a cooking class.
I spent so much time teasing him
 he'd sit in the school weight room lifting trying to come up with ways to get back at me.
This guy went to South Africa on a mission.
I got letters and stories.
When he came home I was ecstatic.
Bryce had that personality that was so good to be around.
He had a calming affect on me. 
He cared a lot about his friends.
He saw more in me than I had in myself.
'Jessica now when you feel like nobody cares you can call me and I will tell you how special you are. cause Jessica you are special! and I am here to let you know.' 
We spent the night walking around school finding our new classrooms, picking out our new seats, planned a date for that weekend.
That next morning bryce was hit by a semi on his way to school.
This experience was more than heartbreaking.
Every January 7th I go to Bryce's family's house with flowers in hand and visit for a couple hours.
We celebrate his life and the memories we have.
When I reflect back on bryce's friendship and this experience 
I know that Bryce came in and saved my life.
He gave me more than I could ever repay him.

Monday, January 6, 2014

Family Information Sheets

None of the kids liked filling out these sheets each year since 1999.  You can see changes in Bryce as you see his form from his Jr. year to Sr. year and final year after he returned home from his mission.

 


November 2008

Christmas 2008
What can I say about Bryce?  He was one of a kind.  We miss him every day.

Monday, December 23, 2013

Five Years...but whose counting

Bryce's Journal
30 Dec. 2008  Well, I've been snowboarding 5 times this season.  We got a few feet in the mountains this Christmas week.  I even went snowboarding by myself once.  It wasn't too bad.  I went to 2 family parties.  I got a weight bench for Christmas.  I built a jump at Willy's to a picnic table but it wasn't much fun so we made it just a jump.  Willy would push me and I did front flips off of it.  Yesterday I I bought a 2002 Toyota Rav 4 for $4,900.  we got a way good deal on it but by the time we do all the needed repairs and things to get it road ready, it will be about $6,000 which is still a dang good deal for what we got.  I love that car.  I need to name it.
31 Dec. 2008  Well yesterday I went snowboarding.  I drove the Prism up by myself.  It does pretty good up the canyon if the roads are good.  I met up with Ben and his brothers there, did about 5 runs on Saddle Back with them and then they had to go so I
rode the Terrain Park by myself the rest of the day.  It was really fun.  I did a way cool trick on the C-box to flat box.  I did a board slide and slid a 360 degree while I was on the box and rode away so smooth the very first time.  It must have looked so cool.  Then my new bindings came and I put them on.  They are soo cool.  Every day that passes, I love my car even more.  I need a name for her.  I weighed 180.4 lbs. this morning, butt naked. 


Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Bryce's Talk Before Going to South Africa



This is Bryce 5 years ago at Christmas time wearing his great DI find...a girl's club jacket from England.  He got home from South Africa in time for the holidays.   It has been a time of reflection and remembering.  There is just something about 5 years being gone that seems significant...and then it will be the ten year mark, etc.
 It is interesting to see how our thoughts about Bryce continue to flow.  I sometimes wonder if we lived in a different house where all his scratch marks, doors in the cupboard that don't close right because he would hang on them as he decided what he wanted to eat, and his room that yells at me every time I enter were all gone ---that  my thoughts would not be jolted as much.  Sometimes I just have to stop and remember things.  It is as if he is reaching through the veil and saying...Mom do you think about this or that? 
Today was a day  like that.  I went down and got out his letters to the Mission President where  his letters home and  journal pages were included.  I never did finish all of it.  Some things are still too hard.  This was the find of the day...his talk that he gave before leaving for South Africa. 


Friday, December 6, 2013

Learning ....

Nov. 6, 2006
I am awesome and not very humble yet but I will work on that and then I will be awesome for reals.  

Jan. 28, 2007
Near the end of the day nothing special had happened and I was just thinking how nice it would be to be home.  Then our last appointment with Thando and Bubela made me glad to be on mission again.  It happens alot where I just want to be done with mission, and then Heavenly Father does something to keep me here. 

Jan. 28, 2007
Then we went and hung out with the sisters...it was kinda weird.  their fun and African. They have B.O. so that's not fun.  I'm trying hard to learn how to be hard core, by being friendly and not thinking bad about others and situations.  I think it's working some.  I am more happy to be here and I think others can see a change in me too.  I felt good about being a missionary today. 


Tuesday, December 3, 2013

Companions, Almost Home, and Will I Adjust?

Sept. 2008
Bryce served in 8 areas, had 14 companions with 9 being from Africa and 5 from elsewhere. He was companions with Elder Nyzungu from Zimbabwe in the MTC in Johannesburg for 3 weeks. Elder Shipp from Virginia was his trainer in Port Elizabeth-Kwa Dwesi for 12 weeks. Elder Baldwin from South Africa was his companion for 6 weeks in Kwa Dwesi. Elder Later was his companion in Port Elizabeth-Walmer for 6 weeks and Elder Robinson for 9 weeks (from St. George, Utah) . He went to George and had Elder Faerch from Johannesburg for 9 weeks. He went to East London and had Elder Marelmela from Johannesburg for 6 weeks and then Elder Nielsen ( his greenie) from American Fork for 19 weeks, then Elder Andriandrisoa from Madagascar for 6 weeks. He went to King Williams Town and had Elder Mdanda from Durban for 6 weeks, Elder Thethe from Lesothu ( only missionary serving from his country) for 6 weeks, and Elder Randrianirinaniarivo from Madagascar for 6 weeks. He then went to where he really wanted to go and that was Capetown-Langa with Elder Bean from Lindon, Ut. for 6 weeks. He is finishing up in Port Elizabeth--Kwa Nobuthle where he began with Elder Ekeya from Uganda for 5 weeks. 

 Elder Bean and I have been working with crazy less actives and we take time to reflect and think about all the crazy people we work with and their problems, all the insane things we see, feel, and hear. We can really see first hand the damage that Satan can do. I am so grateful for the circumstances that I am in and for the opportunities that I have. The people here need the gospel so badly but they just can't seem to get it. Satan has blinded them so much, led them sooo far from the path. It is so great when we are able to see lives change, to see people's countenance change. I think I'm going to have a huge culture shock when I get home.

Wednesday, November 27, 2013

I Am Thankful For Prayer

May 26, 2007 It’s interesting that the Sunday I spoke just before leaving to my mission
here in South Africa, I was assigned to speak on prayer. Something that would seem
so simple. Now 8 months later as I look back at all of the investigators I have had or
that other missionaries have had I can link back almost all of their progression or not
progressing to prayer. Just the other day we met an investigator who we have been
seeing for a few months. We committed him long ago to read, study, ponder and pray
to know if the Book of Mormon and the Church were true…as we do with almost every
appointment. I asked him –Ryan, did you pray about the Book of Mormon? Ryan said
yes but he didn’t get an answer. Well Ryan, when was the last time you read the Book of
Mormon? About a week or two ago. Than I think to myself, no duh! You didn’t get an
answer. It has occurred to me that sincere prayer is something that takes up most of your
day or even most of your week or month. Every time someone is not progressing it’s
because they are not sincerely praying.
That means they are not studying and learning
about the church or thinking about our message. 
I remember Neeba, my first baptism, when we taught, how he was excited and asked questions. When we would come back he would bring friends and type up reports about what he learned from his study of the scriptures. He received answers to his prayers because he was sincere and put forth effort. It’s difficult to get everyone to do that. It’s great to see the progress of the people I worked with in my first area. Neeba was baptized in Jan. just before his 18th Shortly after that he received the Aaronic Priesthood. Then he baptized a good friend of  his and taught his two younger brothers and brought them to church each week as well as his mom. He gave us referrals like crazy and asked  us for Book of Mormons to give to people he was sharing the gospel with. He brought friends and family to his house for us to teach. He went to the temple to do baptisms for the dead even though he could not afford the 8 hour trip. He has now receive the Melchezedik priesthood and is preparing
each day to serve a mission; When he turns 19…this is someone who 6 months ago had
not heard of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Archie whose wife and daughter had been members for 1 year was baptized just the last
week or two before I left Dwesi. He now has the Melchezedik Priesthood as well and
is the Young Men’s President. There are so many good things happening. Those good
things happen because of sincere prayer and action on answers and promptings to those
prayers. The better we can master communication between us and our Father in Heaven,
the better we can fulfill our purpose here on this earth and the better we can help others
fulfill their purpose. 

 Oooh, mom and dad…mission is crazy. I’m still the same Bryce, but I’m different. The gospel is so simple..but it’s so complicated. Things are so easy, but they’re so difficult….it is a great thought. I meet so many crazy people all the time and see the strangest things. It just happens so much that it doesn’t even faze me.
 It’s crazy to think about the relationship we all had in the spirit world and what we were all like, and what we all did to be blessed with knowing and accepting truth.